In a previous life, also known as my transition year into the real world, I was always split on what I should wear. Torn between what I actually liked and what I thought I should be wearing. Have you ever experienced that? Wishing you were rocking an epic pair of silk split leg pants instead of a boring pair of jeans? But still you choose the safer option to avoid being judged. We’re human and succumbing to society’s expectation happens, but for some of us it’s more of a habit than a rare occurrence.
Breaking this habit can seem nearly impossible, especially if you work at a more conservative 9-5, but it’s a lot simpler than you think. The hardest part is giving yourself permission to wear and purchase these items. Many times we struggle to justify buying or wearing seemingly extravagant clothes because society, and sometimes our inner self, guilts us into thinking we aren’t worthy of these things. But after all you’ve been through to get to where you are now, you need to realize that you are more than deserving to wear something that makes you look and feel incredible.
I’ll be honest it was difficult when I first started wearing the clothes that made me happy. The looks I got walking down the street, the occasional point and whisper almost made me relapse into my boring old wardrobe. But what I quickly found out was that those people were envious. Wanting to know where I got my pants from, how I looked so put together, just generally wanting to know who I am and what it is that I do. Once you give yourself permission to do amazing things, dress impeccably, the rest will fall into place. See how else I rocked bold wide leg pants.
Now I want to hear from you, do you find that you’re torn between what you want to wear and what you end up wearing?
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Cute flats and I actually don’t mind those pants for the warmer weather.
Thank you Alicia! These flat are quickly becoming a staple in my spring 16 wardrobe and oddly so are these pants, glad you like them.
That whole outfit is awesome!
Thank you so much Kimberly!
Amen! I’m a huge fan of all things that fall into the “not average” category. I always ask, why would you want to look and be just like everyone else? Rock those awesome clothes! I love the t-shirt, btw!
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That’s such an awesome motto Carey, I completely agree with you. Everyone else is taken so we might as well be who we are! Thank you for stopping by to share.
what unique looks! love the flats!
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Thank you Tianna, that’s what I strive for here on Lil Miss JB Style so I’m glad this look captured that vibe.
when i was in africa 6 years ago i got pants that wrap around and are slits up the sides, similar to these! its such a fun thing to wear. loving these black ones!
Xx
Kali
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That’s so awesome Kali, Africa is definitely on my bucket list of places to go. Would love to know where exactly you visited.
Oh, I am soooo loving these pants! The look perfect with this cute graphic tee and lace up flats. Simply Fabulous.
Thanks Jennie, I’m really glad you enjoyed my look!
I love the casual look here and those are some sexy pants. I could see how you could wear them casual or dressy. Nice look!
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jess xx
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That’s definitely the reason I bought these pants Jess. I love items that are versatile yet very easy to style.
Wow I love those pants! They are so different and unique and sexy! I also like you toned down the sexiness by a simple t shirt! Great look!
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Thank you Ruth, I like styling things unexpected pieces in different ways to inspire others to try to venture out with their wardrobe.
Good for you rocking these extraordinary pants! I find that I get stares sometimes, too, like I’m overdressed for the occasion. And some people have even made comments to make me feel like I was not dressed for the occasion (i.e., the playground with my kids). Once I realized it was jealousy, then I upped my dress up game even more! Ha! In your face, naysayers. I WILL wear what I like and I WILL feel great doing it!
Shelbee
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Shelbee that’s awesome for you! It’s so annoying when people want to bring your happiness down because of their insecurities. I’m glad you saw the true meaning of their glares and used it as motivation to continue to dress in a way that makes YOU feel incredible!
We are both rocking the slit pants today! Love this look!
Shauna
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Great minds definitely think alike!
I have pants just like these from Tobi. Love them paired with the knotted tee.
Those pants are so fun and I love it with the graphic tee.
Thank you for being a part of TBT Fashion link up and hope to see you soon!
Alice
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You look fantastic! I haven’t seen those pants before but they look super interesting to wear.